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submitted by: Margaret Coakley and Erie Beemsterboer

This month in worship we have several Lenten series and services taking place. We started the Lent season with a collegiate service. This year it was our turn to host Second Reformed Church, Suydam Street Reformed Church and Highland Park Reformed Church. The service was very moving with the imposition of ashes, hand washing and the celebration of the Lord’s Supper. Following it was a delicious Feast of Sausages which people enjoyed.

An Adult Education class series is being offered on all Fridays of Lent. The series will be led by Pastor Hartmut and held on Friday nights at 8:00 p.m. at various church members’ homes. The theme is Living Our Faith in a Messed-Up World. On Feb 19th, the series started at house of the Pastors. On the following dates, the families mentioned will host the next session. All are welcome to attend any of these.

Feb 26th – the Feketes
Mar 5th, the Waanders
Mar 12th, the Vande Buntes
Mar 19th, the Novacks
Mar 26th, the Hances

We thank all of these generous people to open their houses for these classes.

Like last year on Maundy Thursday, there will be a Seder meal followed by a Tenebrae Worship service. This service was very well received last year, and I know people are looking forward to having this service again. See the article about this elsewhere in the newsletter. And the first Sunday of April we will celebrate Easter. Again special elements for the service are planned.

Looking further ahead on the calender: For our annual Rally Sunday in September, we are working on something really special. It will be a full weekend of special events. The dates to put on your calendar are Sep 11th and 12th. We will host Lorraine Nelson-Wolf in a Song Gift Weekend. More details will be announced later.

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Last year, we celebrated a special dinner on Maundy Thursday. Dinner was served in the sanctuary at tables set for a “Seder-like” meal. In fact, we did follow a shortened version of a Seder, with a few additions including an altered form of the Lord’s Supper. Following dinner, we entered the pews and concluded with a Tenebrae worship, which reminded us of Jesus’ death on the cross. The whole experience in this form was incredibly moving; thus, the Invitation & Outreach Committee along with the Worship Committee plan to celebrate Maundy Thursday again in such a way.

Please mark your calendar for Apr 1st, 7:00 p.m. The Seder meal menu will include lamb, rice pilaf, greens, various Seder foods, dessert and beverages. A vegetarian dish will also be available. Since Ethel Salamone is “The Chef”, we know that the meal will be delicious. The cost of the meal is $10 per person and $30 for a family.

Reservations will be required since we have to set up tables in the sanctuary and need to plan out the number of seats. There will be a sign up sheet in Fellowship Hall, with a cut off date of Mar 21st. If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to ask Ethel Salamone or Joan Fekete for more information.

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Lenten Liturgy

by Rev. Dr. Hartmut Kramer-Mills on January 25, 2010

in General, Pastor's Desk, Worship

When thinking of the calendar year of the church, many of us anticipate spending much of 2010 with brick and mortar. We allocated six weeks between the end of February and the beginning of April to the reconstruction of the Women’s Bathroom. Later, in May, construction of Phase 1 of our Preservation project will begin: the steeple, the church roof, the church attic, and the soffit of the education building.

With so much physical work, it is necessary that we take care of our spiritual balance. The time of Lent offers itself for this, as it provides us with some great opportunity to find center in our worship life. As every year, we will begin Lent on Ash Wednesday, Feb 17th, at 7:30 p.m. with a collegiate worship service here at First Reformed Church. Folks from the Highland Park Reformed Church, Second Reformed Church, and the Suydam Street Reformed Church will join us for the occasion. Our organist and choir director, Ben Berman, has found great music for the combined choir.

Following the Ash Wednesday service, we will offer a special confessional liturgy during the beginning part of our Lenten Sunday worship services. This liturgy centers on the baptismal font and is based on words from Psalm 51. Each time, we will pour water into the font, reminding ourselves of the beginning of our faith in the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. In doing so, we will adapt a format that comes to us from the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.).

In addition to this special worship liturgy, we offer a Lenten Adult Education Class. It has the title, Living Your Faith in a Messed-up World, and comes to us from our sister denomination, the Christian Reformed Church. Each session will focus on a short film or interview that provides an exemplary insight into the relevance of the Reformed faith today. The sessions will be held on Friday nights at 8:00 p.m., beginning on Mar 19th. We are trying to hold these sessions in various homes rather than at church. If you would like to host a session, please call our church office (732-545-1005).

A Presbyterian Lenten liturgy and a Christian-Reformed adult education class — this also reflects where we are as the people of First Reformed Church: firmly embedded in our Reformed tradition and, yet, always eager to broaden our horizon and outlook.

May this year’s Lenten journey be meaningful to you!
Pastor Hartmut

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Lenten worship plans

by Erie Beemsterboer on January 24, 2010

in Events, General, Items of Interest, Worship

Lent
The worship committee is looking forward to a meaningful Lenten period and Easter season. Not all the details are completely planned as I write this, but many thoughts and special plans are in the works. Please mark in your calendar Feb 17th for Ash Wednesday. This year we will be hosting this service for the collegiate churches (which include Highland Park, Second, and Suydam Street Reformed Churches). This worship service is always moving with the imposition of ashes, hand washing, and the celebration of the Lord’s Supper. Of course, I would be remiss in forgetting to announce the Feast of Sausages following the Ash Wednesday Services. That’s an evening you don’t want to miss.

A deeply moving Seder meal, like the one we held last year, is once again planned for Maundy Thursday. We will begin to collect reservations soon. This meal is then followed by a Tenebrae Worship during which we remember our Lord Jesus’ death on the cross. More information about this meal will follow in March.

As flu season is still around us, we have to be careful to not spread germs. In order to help this along, there are wipes and hand sanitizers available in the back of the church for you to use.

At our last meeting, we also talked about the Lunchtime Recitals. The spring season is coming soon, and we are preparing for it, even though the State of New Jersey has announced that it will be freezing all grants for arts events. So keep an eye out for the announcements of the dates and performers, and any call to help us celebrate this ministry for the New Brunswick Livingston School music classes and the elderly who are served through this outreach program.

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A Calling that Caused Worry

by Rev. Dr. Hartmut Kramer-Mills on January 3, 2010

in From the Pulpit, General, Worship

The Boy Jesus in the Temple

Now every year his parents went to Jerusalem for the festival of the Passover. And when he was twelve years old, they went up as usual for the festival. When the festival was ended and they started to return, the boy Jesus stayed behind in Jerusalem, but his parents did not know it. Assuming that he was in the group of travelers, they went a day’s journey. Then they started to look for him among their relatives and friends. When they did not find him, they returned to Jerusalem to search for him. After three days, they found him in the temple, sitting among the teachers, listening to them and asking them questions. And all who heard him were amazed at his understanding and his answers. When his parents saw him, they were astonished; and his mother said to him, ‘Child, why have you treated us like this? Look, your father and I have been searching for you in great anxiety.’ He said to them, ‘Why were you searching for me? Did you not know that I must be in my Father’s house?’ But they did not understand what he said to them. Then he went down with them and came to Nazareth, and was obedient to them. His mother treasured all these things in her heart. And Jesus increased in wisdom and in years, and in divine and human favor.

Pastor: This is the Word of the Lord!
People: Thanks be to God.

Sermon for First Reformed Church, December 27, 2009
Title: A Calling that Caused Worry
Text: Luke 2:41-52

If you look at this text from the standpoint of a parent, you see immediately that it portrays a mixed bag of behaviors. Some of them are good and noteworthy and they would fill any parent with pride. Others are outright questionable. Yet, somewhere in between, there is a message for us on this morning.

Undoubtedly good is the fact that the boy Jesus was apparently able to hold his own in the question-and-answer session with the temple teachers. Remarkable was also his certainty regarding his identity and calling: ‘Do you not know that I must be in my Father’s house?’

But think about his worried parents! For three days, they had searched for him in vain. When they, finally, made it back onto the temple grounds, it was like returning to a crowded mall or football stadium. This is, at least, how scholars describe the situation. Much of the temple property was open courtyard, surrounded by colonnaded areas where teachers held their classes. The boy Jesus had joined one of them.

Ancient world literature has, of course, more amazing-child stories than this one. Yet, they usually sound different, as they do not include a critical dimension: The childhood stories of Achilles, Heracles, Alexander the Great, and others portray them as exceptional from an early age on, but not as children who cause their parents grief.

In his new commentary, Richard Vinson claims that our story is different, because it employs an appropriate understanding of developmental psychology. According to Vinson, our story describes a ‘pure teenager’, that wonderful and maddening mixture of quick perceptiveness and utter self-absorption.

To drive his point home, Vinson builds a bridge to today’s parents of adolescent children when he remarks that the way [the boy Jesus] talks to Mary, under normal circumstances, would probably only increase the length of his grounding.’ Vinson further elaborates on this. When Jesus defends himself, ‘Did you not know that I must be in my Fathe’rs house?’ Vinson has Mary respond:

‘Didn’t we know? Worry us sick, and then he says we should have known? I’ll tell you what you’re going to know, young man! You’re going to know the inside of your father’s workshop like the back of your hand, and you’re not going to know much else until Elijah comes back or you grow up, whichever comes first!’

Other scholars, however, shy away from applying developmental psychology to the scene. They emphasize the fundamental belief of Antiquity that personality never changes throughout life, and that children are, therefore, something like miniature adults.

From this vantage point, Jesus’ portrayed treatment of his parents requires sociological, not psychological interpretation. Sociologically, our story marks not only the beginning of Jesus’ adulthood, but also his concomitant leaving of the private world of women and entering the public world of men. Interpreted in this way, the upsetting response Jesus gave to his mother originally may have been intended to show early Christians that Jesus had successfully mastered the transition into manhood.

Be this as it may. Either way, Jesus’ behavior caused his parents grief. When called on it, he responded by talking down to his mother. Each time, the text does not try to hide this. We can explain it psychologically or sociologically. Yet, in the end, we stand back puzzled. We know it is real. At the same time, we wonder whether it was intended to be this way. It may be an accurate description of reality. Nevertheless, we would like to know, whether there is a deeper meaning to the juxtaposition of good and not so good in the very same story.

Richard Vinson, the commentator I quoted earlier, suggests relating these contrasts theologically ‘to the intersection of humanity and divinity in Jesus.’ This enables him to provide meaning to the story’s coexistence of the good and not so good. Yes, his divine nature needs Jesus to be in his Father’s house, but human reality has a few strings attached. Ultimately, however, Vinson condenses the interplay between these two contrasts in a single question:

Would God really encourage a young adolescent to stay behind in the big city and worry his parents to death?

The implied answer is, of course, ‘No!’ We may startle at the bluntness of this recognition. Yet, it gives us, at least, an appreciation of the difficulties the revelations of God encounter in this world.

I would like to transfer some of these insights now into our daily lives. When confronted with the opaque behavior of her son, Mary received a glance into the future. At one point or another, we, too, have experienced the mystery of God’s will. At times, the path ahead of us could not be clearer. Prosperity and success seem to affirm the general benevolence of God.

At other times, we are stunned. Why me? we ask, or Why this innocent one? Then we resort to prayer. Again, at times the onset of healing seems to affirm the general benevolence of God and unmasks the time of trial as a test.

What happens, however, if the onset of healing never comes and the paradigm of testing reveals itself as absurd? What happens when prayer remains seemingly unanswered? Will the mystery also render God’s presence invalid?

Back in the Temple, Mary received a foretaste of how strangely opaque her son’s life would become. We cannot even venture to assume what she must have felt under the cross, when it had become apparent that this cup had not been removed from him.

Having recognized this, we are well within our bounds in applying it to the very future of our church as well. In stating this, I do not want to deny that we have a great vision, and a good plan. Before we get to the mysterious part, let me therefore state what we have:

We know that growth in numbers will not necessarily eliminate the deficit in our annual budget. Consequently, we have emphasized income through building usage. In addition, we have linked our church to a number of institutions that provide meaning and income. These range from the soup kitchen Elijah’s Promise to City Hall, to the New Brunswick public school system, all the way to our colleagues at the New Jersey Historic Trust, from whom we receive half of the funding for our preservation project.

However, we are not finished, and our budget deficit is still there. Consequently, our Consistory has approved this month a contract with a special interior architect from Philadelphia. We have asked him to provide us with a feasibility study of what might be possible in our church building itself: How could we divide its space anew and in ways that would enable us to respond to some of the needs of our community and save utility costs at the same time? What possibilities might this offer regarding other institutional partners with whom we could walk into the future together?

Once the study is complete, Consistory will present it to you as the congregation and open the floor for discussion. It will not be a very fast process, as group work always takes time. Nobody can currently predict the outcome. Only one thing is clear today: As good stewards of this property, we must venture the exploration.

Today, however, on the Eve to a New Year, we have received a foretaste from our Lord’s own childhood on how complicated and complex it may be when we pursue a call in earnest. The boy Jesus’ appearance in the temple has shown us: We cannot ratify a call the way we would ratify a strategic paper. When we experience this spiritual truth in our own future, I hope we will remember that the holy family itself was not exempt from these dynamics and that this was not at all easy for them. Yet, this, too, is part of the story that we continue to write.

So, will our future be unambiguous and easy? As I said earlier, certainly not! Will it give cause to some worry and increased need to understand? If we follow the paradigm of the 12-year-old Jesus in the Temple, undoubtedly, we will have to answer, “yes.” Serious struggle for a better future is no easy business! Yet, in all of this, it will be important that we do not interpret the uncertainties of the path ahead of us as void of God’s presence.

Rather, the text itself makes us an offer, when it sets before us Mary. Instead of getting upset, she pondered all these things in her heart. I suppose this is what kept her balanced and, ultimately, self-differentiated enough not to succumb to blind anxiety. The text invites us to follow her into the New Year. Amen.

The Scripture quotations contained herein are from the New Revised Standard Version Bible, copyright, 1989, by the Division of Christian Education of the National Council of the Churches of Christ in the U.S.A. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

The quotations from Richard Vinson are taken from Richard B. Vinson, Luke, (Smyth & Helwys Bible commentary, 21), Macon, GA, 2008.

The sociological approach referenced here is taken from Bruce J. Malina / Richard L. Rohrbaugh, Social-Science Commentary on the Synoptic Gospels, 2nd edition, Minneapolis, MN, 2003.

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Musical Notes

by Ben Berman on December 1, 2009

in General, Items of Interest, Music, Worship

Advent!

What a truly anticipatory time! Traditionally, we wait for the coming of Christ. I will tell you something else you can expect: a very eclectic Christmas Eve music program on December 24 . The adult choir th and the bell choir have been working tirelessly to provide a meaningful set of music to the congregation.

On Christmas Eve, you will see and hear the space in the sanctuary being used to its fullest potential. There will be virtuosic displays by soloists, intensely devotional hymns by the choir, and joyous music heralding the coming of the Son of God.

Everyone is welcome to sing in the adult choir. Our practices are Wednesday evenings at 7:30 p.m. and Sunday mornings at 9:00 a.m. Christmas is the perfect season to join, and we are more than glad to include you. The more the merrier! And the merrier the choir, the merrier the Christmas! So let’s have a very merry Christmas.

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A New Communion Set on the Holy Table

by Rev. Dr. Hartmut Kramer-Mills on September 14, 2009

in General, History, Items of Interest, Worship

The preacher has it right in Ecclesiastes 3: There is a time for everything. One morning during early summer, the handle of our old communion set broke in a way that was not repairable. This was very sad, as the communion set had been a gift from our former pastor, David Muyskens, and his wife, Donna.

The Worship Committee reacted with an ad-hoc session and brainstormed what to do. Due to increased building usage, the Holy Table and the communion set are moved around several times each week. We needed a sturdier set, therefore, and we discussed several options.

Finally, Heather Epstein brought us a sample cup from Trio, a shop for Judaica in Highland Park, where she knew the owner. She presented this to the choir and a wider audience prior to one of our summer worship services and gathered comments. After some further consideration, it was decided to purchase the cup. At the same time, an anonymous donor gave us a fitting silver plate. The cup features a relief of the holy city Jerusalem, a motif that connects Jews and Christians simultaneously and adds an interfaith dimension to our worship services. Please see the accompanying pictures. We will dedicate the new communion set during Rally Sunday on September 13th.

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